The best free bdsm sites

What is a good FREE dating site that I sould find singles interseted in BDSM or just S&M??? I am already on collar me, as ladyatday.

BDSM lifestyle question? I'm only 26, im a Dom, and it's very hard to find young people involved in the BDSM lifestyle, I know a few bdsm personals online but most of them are people trying to roleplay or they're fake or just looking for kinky relationships (yes there is a difference and it's huge). where can I find young singles involved in the bdsm lifestyle? please name as many ways to find people in the lifestyle as posible.

what are the best free dating sites with the most members and activity? i am looking for 100% free dating sites for regular singles and bdsm that have the most members and the most activity and not just free to join but free to do everything

Is BDSM legal for minors? Not really a marriage question, but I think you married people know the law better than the stupid kids in the Singles & Dating section so...I am 20, and my best guy friend is 17. We've become friends with benefits on his 17th birthday, and we've been having sex almost every day (and yes this is legal; age of consent in NY is 17). I always had this crazy rape fantasy of tying him up and riding him cowgirl while he moans and screams...but I don't know if BDSM is legal for him until he turns 18. If anyone knows, please let me know. Thanks.

Is there codes in the BDSM world? Similar to the gay hanky codes? http://alt.xmission.com/~trevin/hanky.html I'm new to the BDSM scene and I want to know how to single I"m a female submissive. I'm glad its a great question.. does anyone have answers?

Has anyone say 35+ ever met someone on a online dating site and it worked? I tried before but every single one of the men lied...ALL were married. I find myself at a loss. I live in Wa. state and it's a dead, dried up, uninspiring pool of overweight, goatee coved, latte drinking, sandal wearing, computer nerd, liberal males. Blah. I have 3 huge problems.... 1. my age...40 2. I have a fetish for Military men 3. I only seek those who pratice BDSM I have tried the BDSM sites, but again all the men were whales, married, or just plain players seeking sex only. Is it true that at age 40 single women have to settle? Should I hide my true sexually identity and be with a vanilla? (zzzz) Should I not seek Military men and instead be with a pseudo man who hates our military, yet loves the rights that they die to protect. I don't even know what section to post this in??? Singles & Dating Military Psycology Women Against Weenies my ex is Military and I really can't see myself with anything else. I just really dislike wishy washy, weak men.

whats the best way to find a partner? i'm a single submissive guy, who is very interested in lots of forms of bdsm, and very kinky. so what the best way to go about finding a female partner, should i look for a "normal" girl that i like, get on with and have a few things in common with, and hope that i can introduce her into the kinier side of my life, and hope she doesnt run a mile. or should i look for a more dominat women,into the same sort of kinky things i am, and hope that we have things in common outside the bdsm world? any advise would be good, and any tips on where to find any would be great too this is a serious question, has i have been taken 4 a ride by some fake online Dommes b4

For serious swinger replies only? My wife and I recently went to a BDSM/Swinger party at a local dungeon. We've been to several house parties where everyone is polite and asks for permission before touching kissing or groping anyone else. At this particular party however, there were single men, which is not typical of these parties. One of the single men, who was the dj and up on stage took his peter our of his pants and aimed it in my wife's direction as she was just below the stage on the dance floor as if she was going to suck it for him. She didn't because we're just not into that type of random behavior. We have played with a couple of couples, but are very selective. My question is: Are there women who would have taken this stranger? And we wonder if others have sex at these events just for the sake of it, or do you need to have some attraction to the other participants?

PORN for women? Why do women often find it annoying when guys watch porn. ive heard things like: 1) "atleast they are not cheating on me" 2) "i guess once a month is ok" 3) "eww its gross i would never do that" =========== From my perspective, I watch porn because: 1) I fantasize doing that stuff with my woman (or if i'm single hopefully a future love interest) 2) Look at hot girls 3) Relieve stress 4) Because I'm horney and my 'Willy' won't calm down, lol ===================== I wish my current girlfriend / future girlfriend would do that stuff with me.. and no i dont mean beastiality, DvDa(lol),BDSM

This man and I have a strange relationship, I need advice.? ok here goes. This older man and I have been seeing each other for the past 3 years. We have this BDSM relationship, where he hurts me physically and emotionally. The reason I allow him to do these things is because I need the money he gives me every month to get by. I know most of you probably think I'm nuts for keeping this secret life. I have not been in a real relationship in 5 years. However I am unable to make ends meet without him. I want to feel good about myself but sometimes I just can't stand myself for letting things get this bad. I am a single mom and newly college grad, but I can't find a descent job. I just want to start over I just have no money, I am desperate to make things right. What would you do? My parents are deceased and I have no family.

Troubling question about children seeing parents sex practices? Something really problematic happened few days ago. My husband and I both came home early from work and started to becoming intimate. We are active in bdsm and that time we were having a very rough encounter (whips, clamps, and a gag ball). We are very careful to keep this lifestyle away from my 6 y/o daughter (was a single mom before). But that day we were so loud we didn't hear hear her come in from her carpool (early release day at school). She heard my pain cries and ran to see my husband and me. Now she's convinced that my husband (her step-father) is abusing me. (He's a very sweet hubby and father but now shes too scared to even let him talk to her.) What do we do now? Do we need to talk her to a therapist? I know we were very irresponsible but don't know what to do now.

Can A Single Person Be A Cuckold? Most definitons say that being a cuckold requires being married, and the man is almost always the bottom. I am sure anyone can be creative bdsm type relationship, but is there another name for a "cuckold type" relationship that's not the traditional married couple with the woman top and man bottom?