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Is it not dangerous to participate in BDSM sessions with dominant mistress ? Recently i have seen some BDSM sessions where the dominant mistress is torturing her slave like hell. Don't he (slave) feel the pain ?? or she (mistress) takes care of every thing, i mean safety measures with out doing any physichal harm to her slave.? anybodywho participated in such sessions can clarify my doubt?

A Cop Falls in love with a BDSM Mistress? This movie where a cop falls in love with the Mistress he is investigating.It is set in the UK and I can't remember the name, It is at least two years old, or more Just check this post, I have searched everywhere, for the life of me, loved that stupid movie, and can't find it

i am into bdsm and found a nice mistress? does this make me a freak she treats me great and i love to serve her

I want to become a sex slave and obey my master or mistress 100%? i am thinking about becoming a slave and i have wanted this for a life style for about 3 years now... But i realize i gotta make a good choice before i really agree to it, i mean this is what i want but is this a bad idea? i also wanna be put into bdsm and made to do things to please Master or Mistress...is it normal or is it bad that i want to submit to a Master/Mistress?

I want to become a sex slave and obey a Master or Mistress 100%? i am thinking about becoming a slave and i have wanted this for a life style for about 3 years now... But i realize i gotta make a good choice before i really agree to it, i mean this is what i want but is this a bad idea? i also wanna be put into bdsm and made to do things to please Master or Mistress...is it normal or is it bad that i want to submit to a Master/Mistress?

I want to become a sex slave for a Master or Mistress and obey 100%? i am thinking about becoming a slave and i have wanted this for a life style for about 3 years now... But i realize i gotta make a good choice before i really agree to it, i mean this is what i want but is this a bad idea? i also wanna be put into bdsm and made to do things to please Master or Mistress...is it normal or is it bad that i want to submit to a Master/Mistress?

Is it a sin to serve a Mistress? Ok my friend is serving a bdsm Mistress and he does a lot for her such as remaining in chastity device and massaging her feet and all sort of other degrading things. He seems to like serving her is he ok?

Would You Consider Going To A BDSM Dominant As Cheating On Your Spouse? I'm asking this question here for a number of reasons, one being that I know the people are a little more open minded than most and have knowledge about many sexual issues most do not know about. The other reason is that I don't feel like explaining what BDSM is because when I do people get irked and think that it is "wrong" and "psychotic". Basically I want to know if you would consider seeing a BDSM mistress as cheatin on your spouse. My interest with my mistress is not for sex, handjobs or anything like that but she gives me what my wife cannot in terms of dominating. I feel bad that my wife would think I am nuts if she knows what I am doing and will not understand (we're from a tight-knit Catholic upbringing). I feel like I am cheating her in not telling her about this, but I do love her and want to stay with her. Do you have any words of wisdom for me? Am i cheating my wife?

For BDSM domination and humiliation what are good sites for supplies? I am a budding domme once again having been out of the lifestyle for a long while. I need to know of some decent and legitimate websites for various supplies and goodies with which to use on my new submissives I am now getting! Thanks in advance, Mistress Sharon

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Where on the internet can I purchase BDSM trophies? I am looking for trophies that could be given to Mistresses, Madams, subs etc; that has whips or paddles on them.

If someone is really demanding should they become a Master/Mistress? If someone is told that they are a really demanding person in general about things, does that mean they would be a good candidate for a BDSM relationship - as a Master/Mistress? Yes, assume they have an actual interest and fascination in being a Master/Mistress. Also, what are other good outlets for someone to feel like they are in control?

How do I stop fantasizing about feminization? Alot of my fantasies have been about me being feminized by a woman. Feminization is a BDSM activity where a mistress or dominant woman changes the gender of a submissive man. Cross-dressing and other activities are invovled designed to make the man "feminine". Recently, I have visited this website about feminization and I have come to conclusion based on what i read and saw in that website that feminization is homosexual. I am a heterosexual man. Therefore, I should not fantasize like this. So how do I move away from this crap. Ok, no one answered my question, and I'm worried about myself

Where is the best place to learn about BDSM in full detail? I'm very into bondage and blood play, I was looking for some site that is really good about giving details in the BDSM community. Such as: Rules to obeying a Master/Mistress, the rules of being a Submissive, etc. Thank You.

Can anyone recommend some good BDSM sites? BDSM dating sites i mean, with bdsm personals on them, preferably uk ones....i have already tried alt.com, fetlife, informed consent, bdsmsingles, collarme.com.......they all suck....i am looking for mistress slave relationship, please help.......

i want to be a sex slave for a master or mistress and obey them...? i am thinking about becoming a slave and i have wanted this for a life style for about 3 years now... But i realize i gotta make a good choice before i really agree to it, i mean this is what i want but is this a bad idea? i also wanna be put into bdsm and made to do things to please Master or Mistress...is it normal or is it bad that i want to submit to a Master/Mistress?

Financial Domme: Where can I find a "money slave" that will let me financially dominate them? :)? I'm a 22/f/fl and I want another pay pig to dominate financially. I have one financial sub/slave, but I found him on accident. Does anyone know of a good site to find a man that is into BDSM/Money slave/ financial domina relationships online? If you are into this let me know! <3 Mistress Marla

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Are professional mistresses (dominas) illegal in England? by which I mean women who offer BDSM services...

How do you tell your parents/friends before they find out? The question is.. how do you tell your family and friends your into BDSM before they find out the had way? I still cat think of how i am going to explain it to them when they find out... my mistress keeps answering my cell phone... so they will find out sooner or later... Help T_T The question is.. how do you tell your family and friends your into BDSM before they find out the hard way? I still cat think of how i am going to explain it to them when they find out... my mistress keeps answering my cell phone... so they will find out sooner or later... Help T_T Edit: Corrected spelling

I keep having dreams about...? Ok, well I keep having dreams that I am a slave, that I am owned by a master. Usually it's wierd because I have almost fantasy like dreams where the master is somewhat magical/powerful, and I have no power so I cant escape. Everytime, I am scared or running away from him, but when I get captured, I actually enjoy being the slave. Last night's dream was very intense, where I even had a Mistress and had lesbian tendencies (even though I am straight in real life), and I ended up with a male Master in the end where I was properly chained up but I was passionately dedicated to serving him. I want to be submissive in a relationship, but I have researched into BDSM, and found that it's a bit too extreme for my liking. But ever since I have had these dreams, it's attracted me more to it, and I feel very relaxed the next day when I wake up. Is this a sign that deep down I want to actually be completed dominated? That my mind subconsciously 'desires' it? Does it mean I should try it out?

Too good to be true? Okay, here is the situation. I met a guy and he made me an indecent proposal. He is into BDSM and requested that I be his mistress, but I was free to see other men if I chose to. Everything started off great. He supported me financially, took care of me and my daughter and even offered to take a "fantasy" vacation for 3 (me, him and my partner of choice) to the islands for a weekend of fun. Now two months into the relationship he has stopped calling, won't return phone calls, and is longer making financial contributions. What gives? Was this relationship too good to be true? We even discussed future plans to get married, have more children, and move in together. I think he got intimidated by me... what do you think? He brought up all the details to this relationship... the trip, the marriage, the children... All I ever did was treat him like he asked to be treatd ...a submissive male. I loved our relationship. It was simple and there was no stress of not having what I desired in a relationship. If he didn't provide what I wanted I was free to seek other companionship. We had a one-sided open relationship... at his request. This is not sick, just different. There is an entire community of people who deal in dominant/submissive relationships.

BDSM titles... *slaps head and blushes*? I'm literally cringing as I type this because it a bit more personal than I usually get here. Oh, to hell with it...so my girlfriend and I have long been into some light BDSM, we have one issue, there aren't any titles that sound right. We've tried a lot of names and more than not they just make us laugh, which is good but it breaks the mood. If you're into BDSM or if you can come up with names that would work well in this situation, please share. It's seriously been 3 years since we got into this scene and nothing has stuck. I just can't call her "Mistress" or something like that and keep a straight face.

Please end my pain? The woman I've loved and been with for almost three years keeps stringing me along, playing to my hopes and dreams, making it seem like what I want is truly possible - and yet causing me endless suffering every moment of every day. We are in a BDSM relationship with her as my Mistress and me as her Slave. At first things were truly beautiful, romantic and loving in every possible way. However, things degrade over time, and she is interested in polyamory, so for the last 2 years of the relationship she has been seeing other people along with me. She has always put me on the backburner in these situations, and it's a self-perpetuating cycle: my desire for more from her while she is sleeping with our roomate every night (if I'm lucky, I can sleep at the floor beside her) manifests itself in heartbreak and sulkiness, which in turn prevents her from getting closer to me again as her main problem with me is how I am clingy and manipulative with my emotions. I don't know what to do anymore. I spend every waking moment begging to some higher power to restore what we once had, while it is being flaunted about before me in her other relationships. But I can't let go - I need her, she is the only part of my life that has any purpose. I truly do not see any point to life aside from my relationship with her. I don't just mean this in the nicey-nice romantic way that people say. I honestly don't care about anything exclusive to her. I have spent awhile these last few months evaluating my spiritual beliefs in the nature of existence and consciousness, of the meaning of life and the point of it all. While I can find some comfort in the idea that there is a meaning to everything, a universal goal, in doing so I have found my own meaningless existence to be so trivially understated in the grand scheme of things that when I think about it now, I go into bouts of anxiety. The only personal goal in my life that gives me any will to do anything is to rekindle what we had. The only thing that is keeping me sane at this point, the only thing stopping me from diving into the cold, dark abyss of madness that comes with the realization that ones existence and experience is trite, meaningless, and will come to an end long before the universe has finished running its course is my pursuit of her. So I don't know what to do. I'm helplessly lost and drowning at sea.

found out that my boyfriend is involoved in a BDSM community online? I found out that my boyfriend is involoved in a BDSM community online. I am so confused of what to do.We are planning of getting married next year and this scares me to death.one of my friends is a journelist she saw an add on the web with his photo.I saw it , says he is a slave and he wants a mistress.He does not admit it.Then I went to his mail account and it had all the emails. Is it possible to still have a normal relationship?Guess even so I cant live in a relationship with a big lier.I do not know much about this BDSM Thank you

How do I approach this ? My mistress/gf and I are supposed to attend a costume party with a bdsm theme. I am being dressed as a nuaghty school girl while she is going as a sexy teacher with her ruler in case I get out of hand. The glitch I've learned recently is the person holding is a female domme who has a new sub. Her new sub is my ex wife. Apparently my ex doesn't know I am into the bdsm scene nor that I know she's at least bi and also into the lifestyle. My mistress really wants to go to this party since it is a good friend and tells me that she would be embarrassed if I didn't accompany her. Anyone's thoughts?

Does anyone have experience with the husband wearing a chastity device? My husband has been asking me to try a fetish lifestyle where he wears a chastity device and I hold the key. I never really knew they made chastity devices for men until he showed me picture of several different kinds that he found on the internet. We have been married for 15 years and he says this will add some spice to our sex life. At first I though it was either some kind of a joke or something for people into extreme BDSM - but he says it is really just a mild from of domination and that I might like the aspect of having control which I must admit does interest me a little. Some of these devices are $150 or more. He also tells me i have to learn to role play the part of a "chastity mistress" and use "training techniques". Anyone else doing this and having fun? He tells me this is more for married couples who have been together for a while. I am interested to hear what you have to say.

Does anyone know about BDSM lifestyle? I'm seriously considering the "sissy" lifestyle. Living 24/7 as a sissy and hopefully meeting a mistress to serve. Does anyone have any suggestions as to how I get started?

What Do You Like In The Bedroom? Do You Like BDSM or Normal Sex? If You Like Normal Whats Your Fav Sex Position? If you like BDSM what role do you want to play domiant or sumbissive? And what kind of pet mistress/master do you want? This Question Is Just For Fun Not To Hurt Anyones Feelings.

Bdsm Names? I need soem help...xD Umm, I don't know what to call my slave! and I'm his mistress and I don't know what to call him... He wants to be called slave, or slut... I want to GIVE him a name... Someone help!? Any ideas on what I should call him?

i know its a weird quest... but i am lookin for a mistres who is into bdsm for true relation not playing games i am a male slave seekin a mistress for a long term relation only a true relation ia m 23 years old

Question for men who support Hillary? Your fantasies led you to this question didn't they? You couldn't resist could you? You already know what I am going to ask...... Well, are you? A dominatrix (from the Latin dominatrix, meaning a female ruler or mistress; plural dominatrices or dominatrixes) or mistress is a woman who takes the dominant role in bondage and discipline, domination and submission or sado-masochistic sexual practices, which are commonly abbreviated as BDSM. What is your fantasy with Hillary in the White House? Do you want to punish Bill Clinton? Don't be naughty when you answer!