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Ladies! How do I get my wife to role play? I actually dated my wife 10 yrs ago and while she is more open and more communicative in the bedroom than before, she doens't have much of an imagination. Before I met my wife, I was very much into BDSM and role-playing. While the vanilla sex is very good, sometimes I'd like to spice it up a bit. Espeically if she'd take control. Are there any sites I could direct her to in the internet?

Sissy and Tomboy personals / dating sites? Okay, I'm a sissy that's looking for a Tomboy who wants to play rough and dominate me (Not in BDSM since). Like I'm the feminine one and she's the masculine one. I've been having these weird fantasys for quite awhille so I trying to meet someone who wants to be in a role-reversal relationship. Please, does anyone know what I'm talking about? I hate to feel like I'm the only one who feels like this. How rare is these types? THERE'S NO INFO ANYWHERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What the Heck?

Dating a Bisexual? Well i'm 14 year old straight female, and I have a kind, loving gentle boyfriend. He's bisexual; and I no problem with this. He's into cross dressing and BDSM and i'm willing to explore those kinks with him. My question is; Should I let him play around with other boys while we're together? He keeps asking me to let him do anal on my and t-b-h i'm just not comfortable with the idea. Thanks your time likeeeeeeee Yes, he's 14 too. He asked for anal because I wouldn't have proper sex with him as neither of us had a condom. He said "why don't I do you in a place where you can't get pregnant then?" I couldn't think of any valid excuse apart from the fact that I wouldn't be comfortable with it. I heard anal is where alot of STDs are to be picked up...? radar_lover_200 : Thanks for that, you're dead helpful like.

How do i trust my boyfriend? Me and my boyfriend are starting a long distance relationship. 2 days after i left he put up personal ads. one that said strictly looking for friends but if anything happens so be it. Another SWM 25 looking for some BDSM play. I found other ads one looking for a date for News Years. He told me he left his phone at work that why he couldnt call me and he spent new years at home. The funny thing is the times he put the ads up he would call me later that day. Usually we text and im. When i found the personal ads i imed him under a different name and simply said lets have sex. he said give me directions i'll come over regardless. He claims the im wasnt him, but i know it was him because of the lingo and he said the personal ads were because he messed up and was lonely. He said since nothing happen... and the guys are prone to make mistakes it's ingrained and girls should be more forgiven. and he quoted the lass kiss how zack braff needed to be with someone else to know how he really feels about his girl. me and my guy are suppose to get married. right now he is not a great catch but he is in "rehab" getting his life together. He is finally ready to admitt he has bipolar and start taking his pills, quick doing pot, and drinking. he is getting clean and sober. Anyway, i know it was him on the im and personal ads hurt. He hangs out with a lot of girls, but it didnt bother me when i was with him nor did it bother me now that we are long distance, but because of all the above whenever he mentions a girl it hurts and makes me sad because i am not there so who knows what he is really doing. How can i trust him again. i do love him, but...

Bdsm - advice (dilemma)? Jut thought i'd ask if anyone else has this problem. I'm dating a girl whose into being tied up etc etc but I have this odd mental barrier. All my life i've been told respect women, don't hit women (not that I was going around beating women up) and now she wants the complete opposite to what i've been told my whole life. It's playing havoc with my head.

Getting a girl friend with similar kinks? Hello, I was wondering if anyone has advice on finding a girlfriend who has similar interests as mine, I have a thing for B/D and I want to find a girl who loves submitting and being in bondage. Its not a "life style" or anything to that extent, but I would like to find one who enjoys being tied up and playing the submissive role. When dating if I ask to early most girls freak out, if I don't ask until I am deeply into the relationship and she says NO, then I will have wasted my time with somone I am not sexually compatible with. The BDSM "club" people are beyond the extent of my fetish, I feel that the type of girl who would go to one is not the girl who I wish to date. I am in college currently if that makes a difference, Thanks for any help that can be provided.

What does she really want? to be my friend or something else? A girl asked me if she could whip me and said I was her slave both things gave off a weird vibe. I have never really been exposed to this sort of thing I heard her say something about BDSM and she leans on my shoulders and grabs my chest when she sees me. She takes martial arts and likes most of the things I like. When I talk to her my friends sometimes intrudes on the conversation but I am always glad to see her but sometimes I'm not really sure about her. I have zero dating experience, and can't tell if she is flirting. she is probably just my friend and is joking around with me.She also said something to somebody at my table about handcuffs, chains, and ropes and then she named off stuff to do while talking to him like orgies and threesomes saying everyone at the table was one of her slaves. I think she just playing though but part of me is telling me to be a little wary of this girl(when it comes to chain, whips, roped, handcuffs,etc.).

Translation please? A personal ad reads: Sub GAM cd, into BB, PNP, BDSM, WS, iso dom top GWM for NSA and B&G. An aquaintance tried to tell me this means: Substitute teacher, gay and male, likes music. Into big boys. Please no perverts, but dates sane men. Wants someone (who) isn’t so old named Dominic. (Wants) people who will go with me. No spam allowed. Bi and gay. I know that these mean... Gay Asian male, barback (maybe body builder, but I doubt it) party and play, water sports, in search of dominant top (inserter/pitcher) gay white male, no strings attached, blow and go… But should I let him answer such an alphabet soup ad that he doesn't understand or tell him? He's kind of a know it all but is very dim and his name happens to be Dominic. Dougbear- I wasn't thinking about other people's feeling- mainly of the guy placing the ad... Your profile says your into puppetry- are you in the show "Puppetry of the Penis?" lololololololol He's already emailed the sane substitute teacher. Dom has no problem with bieing Bi and gay Should be interesting.