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BDSM lifestyle question?
I'm only 26, im a Dom, and it's very hard to find young people involved in the BDSM lifestyle, I know a few bdsm personals online but most of them are people trying to roleplay or they're fake or just looking for kinky relationships (yes there is a difference and it's huge). where can I find young singles involved in the bdsm lifestyle? please name as many ways to find people in the lifestyle as posible.
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- That's a dangerous sport. :)
- Well in many cases you can simply do a google search to see if you have any groups in your geographic area. However my suggestions would be fetlife.com, collarme.com, or alt.com. Each has it's own positives and negatives, fetlife is basically a free kinky facebook that is great for conversation, networking, and finding people in your area. It's a very accepting and mature site that allows for people to really get into all aspects of kink and BDSM without being harassed by others. Collarme is much more of a meat market, it's not nearly as mature in style and people involved however it's been around a lot longer than fetlife so there are a lot more people. Alt.com is bascially a kinky dating site, it costs money unlike the other two and is the fetish sister site to adultfriendfinder.com. Best of luck and as always please be safe!
- I know what you mean. But try being even younger than you are, and a sub. It sucks. Online, most of the people who respond to you are 50-year-old married guys. Honestly, the best way to do it is just patience. Looking for a vanilla partner is hard enough - looking for one who is into D/s and actually knows what it means is even harder. Maybe try looking up if there are any kink groups, clubs, or parties in your area. Often times younger people go to those types of events. And of course, just give it time.
- I can definitely commiserate! I'm 22 and looking for someone who shares my proclivities, and nearly all the folks messaging me are at least 35, if not older. I don't want to have to be one of those people who puts an age range on their profile like I'm youth-obsessed, but it's getting to that point, since I really don't want to have to keep letting these more mature folks down when they express an interest. I guess it really depends on where you live. If you're in S.F., you're lucky- tons of young'uns into the lifestyle, and lots of local venues to meet them. Otherwise, we've just got to keep weeding through the chaff online. Good luck.
